friendship

Friendship.. The good old boat that wasn't meant to sink but sinks ever so often and sometimes even disappears like magic when the seas are rough.!

That said, its also not fare to expect too much from another human, we forget that others are as imperfect as we are and its totally not fare to expect anything that we wont deliver ourselves. We are all busy getting ahead with our own rate race and we all have our own problems to attend to, why should anyone go out of his or her way to help someone else unless that's his job and he thinks he is going to get a seat next to god in haven, thats still an selfish act and its no diffrent form doing it for a million dollors, for a million dollors i would even sit next to Michel Jackson. : )


All relationships are based on mutual need. When one does not get that anymore from someone the relationship ends. Even with husband and wifes the relationship continues as long as they keep getting what they want, a need for social acceptance to stay married is what drives most marriage in India, even in the west if the husband is an abusive alcoholic the woman sticks to him as long as she thinks she is getting what she wants, it may be security or safety but they endure the abuse and stick on.

We could own a house or a car but we can never own another human, if we try to posses or impose our will we are only left with conflict. So what needs to go must be let to fly, if it comes back its your luck or if it doesn't then need to know we never owned anything or anybody, so let it go.