Why do we feel so bad when some one actually rejects us? Rejection is a real bad feeling, it makes the rejected person feel un-worthy.! and it makes the rejector look like someone you should strive to impress just so you show yourself that your not a scum bag and you do fit in society.! However over simplistic this explanation sounds in the end that's why we want to get back with people who reject us and we may even hound them to get back with us again. The truth is its never about them, its about us and the hollowness it revels that we cant bare to stare at.
I think a better way to look at rejectors is that how narrow minded they actually have been all this time and since your not the one who rejects then you must be a more secure and better person than them!
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1 comment:
Rejection is better than regret.
All of us mature and process thoughts and emotions differently. Some are quicker than others and hence he/she finds other people who have not caught up with their 'growing up' annoying. The only option is to put up with them and understand that they are not yet there. (or where you are
)Its a process and it takes time. Patience is required.
Having said that, I find some elderly people (50+) extremely immature. I don't have an explanation for that. My only conclusion is that some people take very long to 'grow up' and some simply don't?
If somebody rejects you - he/she is unsure of what they want and don't see the value in engaging with the numerous specimens the world has created.
Rejection makes you stronger. Rejection only feels bad when you feel you lost an 'only opportunity'. That is not the truth because opportunities are everywhere and the question comes back to you - have you rejected anybody?
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